Living in positive stimuli and responses

Given a stimulus each individual responds differently. We are going through a time when many people receive such bad news that are out of work. It may be paradoxical and not making the slightest claim to demagoguery and not get to say that is good news, but I do believe that although you tomártelo to the tremendous and sink, it can also accept rock bottom, and take a step forward and that be a real stimulus, an inflection point for growth.

The positive stimuli are pure pleasure, they can not be learned, lived and enjoyed. The negative stimuli are what make people grow within themselves, which can force you to seek what may never find you had raised : yourself.

We are also subject to stimulus and increasingly by technological advance. The barrier of distance, for example in rural areas has historically been a brake, the less interaction with third reduced the number of stimuli to which they respond. Today the physical location is no longer relevant thanks to technology and all forms of communication, everyone can respond to many more stimuli than 10 years ago and still respond to far less than the generation that relieve us, especially so-called native digital born in the 90s.

The situations will be good or bad happening cyclically in our lives.

If you are lucky enough curiously only positive things happen to you, I can not cheer for you, I think something is missing.

My personal ideal scenario is 75% of positive experiences and 25% negative, that are in the background I play on some facet of life, forced me to reflect, to rethink and often change my point of view about things. The 25% enriched me, is pure gasoline for me every day, or at least attempt to be so. The other 75%, and especially the proportion it has with the problems and negative experiences, makes me live in peace.

"Man without a smile does not open shop." At least so says a Chinese proverb that I like and I think we should try to apply it-I often do not get, a day to day. Faced with adversity one can take the path of complacency, surf and sink into your problem and suffering or face arrest and life with dignity. I think the second attempt worthwhile.

Meet people with problems, but real problems, not yours, and about dignity and joy and even the faces cold, it's worth. That's why, it's worth you know Randy Pausch, an example of dignity, positive response to stimuli and joie de vivre. An example that serves to reflect before thinking if one is sinking, depressed, or just face a problem , which by the way, perhaps after seeing this video, you realize it was just a slight little problem.

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